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Advice On Using Feminine Energy
When it comes to relationship skills, women are
highly skilled compared to men. Women are highly practiced in the domain of
relatedness. They know a lot.
Women have a couple of advantages when it comes to relationships. They are
connected to feminine energy, which is about affinity, closeness,
relationship. And, girls are raised much differently than boys, which tells
us a lot.
Girls play with dolls. They play house. They have tea parties. This is no
small thing. All over the world girls play with dolls in some form or other.
What does it matter that you play with dolls? Well, playing with dolls is
playing at relationship. It is playing and practicing nurturing and empathy
and communication skills.
This is remarkable. We have an important gender distinction here that should
not go unnoticed. Nurturing and empathy are High Feminine qualities. While
boys are playing with toy guns, girls are playing at deep feminine skills
like connecting and nurturing and compassion.
Little girls also have imaginary tea parties. At these tea parties they are
also doing something that involves relationships skills. That demonstrates
the High Feminine.
They are communicating. Sitting around and talking. Bonding through
communication is a high feminine skill. Girls grow up practicing and playing
at high feminine skills. They grow up playing at relationship skills. Boys
are playing army.
The lesson right in front of us is that women have a lot of relationship
skills. If you are a woman, use your innate knowledge. Train your mate to
connect and bond and nurture. If you are a man, understand that women know a
lot about relationships that you may not. Learn from them. You will both
benefit.
Marriage Advice Action Plan:
1. How does feminine energy affect you, male
or female? In what ways do you currently nurture or want to nurture?
Bond or want to bond?
2. Consider how to nurture your mate more, if
you aren't doing much currently. If you are giving and nurturing, how
might you be able to help your spouse to become more so?
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road. Marriage advice doesn't need to be hard to understand or follow!
Take an insight and try it in your marriage today.
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